How to fight loneliness?

Well, I ume you are still in love with her. If it has been 10 yrs together, did you say, well, that is like a marriage and you just got a divorce 3 months ago. Some are not even married that long these days. Why didn't you ever marry? It is easier to lose someone seems like if there is no commitment on paper, but that might just be my old ways. I have been married before, but I did not want them back. You just will have to give yourself time. Time to heal, time to meet other people. If you want her, can you go and get her back, or too late? Can you write her a love letter and ask her to come back. If not, have you thought about moving and getting another job in a new town and just start all over again. The loss of a loved one the most hurt outside of a death. In fact it is like one. Just get out and meet new people and give yourself time. If you go out with old friends, you will just talk and drown yourself in your own misery. Get out and do other things, fun things. It is natural reaction, and I am sure there is someone somewhere going through the same thing, that might enjoy your company. It might be the right one this time. Good luck. Don't drown in your self pity, get out and look around. It will do you good . There is plenty of fish in the ocean.