Question for those married to people with disabilities?

When your spouse is mistreated or denied things because of disability do you get more upset than they do? How do you handle it? My husband has limited walking and sometimes needs a wheel chair. He has some other physical ailments. Again last night we went somewhere that previously had enough slight provision for limited walkers to find that even that was not available. I voiced my feelings to people we know there, not ugly or rude or yelling, actually almost crying because it was something that meant a lot to him and left a written note for the person in charge and have had no response. They are open Sun and the person in charge was there last night and would be there today. Yet they expect our financial support. I am still upset. Thanks for listening.