What should I do if my wife dies?

First, I believe you had consensual . But because of her age, it's still statutory . Because of the way things were handled, none of that really matters any more, but it does leave both of you with a huge amount of responsibility at a very young age. No one but God knows what is going to happen with your wife's health. What have the doctors come up with ? Your families will help with the children. You should not take them away from their grand parents if they lose their mother. They will need all the stability they can get. I think that will go for you too. They will need their Dad to be there for them. This is part of the role you have taken on when you decided to have consensual at an early age. It kind of sounds like your wife had an aneurysm, which is a burst blood vessel in the brain. She may or may not recover from it, depending on how much damage has been done to the brain. These things are usually hereditary, and are no one's fault. Many children are raised by single parents so you CAN do this. It won't be easy, but you are going to have help. Just take one day at a time and don't try to look into the future. No matter what the future holds, we were not meant to see it before it happens. The Bible says "Sufficient to the day is the evil therein". That means each day has enough problems of its own, we don't need to go borrowing trouble from the future. It's like the Alcoholics Anonymous slogan, "One Day at a Time". I wish you all good luck. Hang in their and be that rock your babies need.